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The truth finally comes out. You are probably oppressing burgeoning
feelings that you and your husband may have had something to do with
this suicide. The sad thing is, you most likely are directly
responsible for it.
It is always easier for an outsider to see you as you truly are. What
I see is that you a neurotic, frigid woman who took a neurotic,
submissive man and made a child with him without loving him. You
couldn't love the child any more than you loved him and behaved toward
him pretty much like you behaved toward us. The kid was so afraid of
you, he never even tried to open up and seek your help.
We have had many deeply neurotic women join this list hoping to
understand the problems of the men in their lives, never admitting to
themselves that they themselves had the biggest problem of all. We may
not be able to help you, but we do post links to very valuable
information. There are 3 books you should read:
1. Gilmartin
2. Glover's "No more Mr. Nice guy"
3. Robinson's "The power of sexual surrender"
The first book will help you understand your sun, the second your
husband and the last one yourself. Everyone on this list should read
these works.
PB
--- In loveshy_drgilmartin
<ruth.ahlgren@
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as I really don't have anything to offer. My son killed himself and I
> too am in a world of hurt .
> ----- Original Message -----
> Ruth, the reason you perceive animosity directed towards you is that
> you don't believe what we are saying about love-shyness. You don't
> GET IT. This reaction is not uncommon for women, and this response
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