Health And General Life Care: RE: [loveshy_drgilmartin] Re: New way to think about love-shyness

RE: [loveshy_drgilmartin] Re: New way to think about love-shyness

Monday, 21 January 2008

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I am having sex with my woman, but sometimes I am still afraid to touch her too much in a sexual way because I am in fear that if she finds out that I have sexual intersts she may leave. I am also afraid that if I have sex with her too often she will think that I am treating her as a piece of meat and leave me.

Again all this comes back to shame of sex. This is a major reason why I was love shy.

I get around this fear by using a bit of extra thinking, I tell myself: "it is ok to touch her in a sexual way, she alreay knows that I have sexual interests in her."

To: loveshy_drgilmartin@yahoogroups.comFrom: pussy_boy_94@yahoo.comDate: Sun, 20 Jan 2008 04:58:19 +0000Subject: [loveshy_drgilmartin] Re: New way to think about love-shyness

I had this problem and resolved it as described in a previous post:http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/loveshy_drgilmartin/message/13580The problem is caused by the shame and fear we have concerning sex but is easily resolved.PB--- In loveshy_drgilmartin@yahoogroups.com, "noriavatar" <noriavatar@...> wrote:>> Your theory would fit if a loveshy could answer an approach from a > woman. Twice, I was invited by two different women to make love, and > both I was not able. Of course, it was not a somatic o moral problem.> > Maybe in my problem there is something different from love shyness. > Has anybody had a similar experience?

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